Skip to main content

Musings on the Changeless in Face of Change



“Better to understand for a single day the fleeting nature of things than to live for a hundred years without such understanding” - Buddha

Transience is the very nature of life.

Change is the only constant thing says Buddhism, and also a matter of common sense within the experience of all.

We cling to aspects of life - relationships, health, career, status etc etc. Little do we realise the aspect of change inherent in all the aforesaid aspects while we indulge in them. Realisation dawns only when a cherished relationship turns sour, when disease dispels sound heath, when there is a sudden change in career etc. Change also happens for the good, but in good days one is steeped in indulgence. Change speaks better in unhappiness.  It’s when the nature of transience is understood better.

The positive way of looking at change is to not to look at it as a disaster, but to consider it as simply a change. However, it seems beyond the human grasp. A simple understanding of the fact that life is made up of changes because the nature of life itself is a constant flow, helps gain an insight into it. Hence non-acceptance of change is like expecting a river to stand still. The journey goes on as the kaleidoscope of life presents fresh pictures and patterns. To go with the flow is the way.

Said and done non-acceptance of change is inevitable in face of a sudden change. Hence how is one to go with the flow? A deep understanding of change, or rather what are all subject to change starting from ourselves, and that which is changeless, will enable one to go with the flow.



Our body undergoes numerous changes from birth to death, and the mind is a continuous flux of changes with a variety of thoughts in succession, sometimes even contradicting our own convictions once formed before. Failing memory and other cognitive skills etc all pronounce change. If the very body is subject to change what then of the activities associated with the body?

What is that which is changeless? It is the sense of being, the sense of existence or the feeling of ‘I-ness’ if we may call, that is ever present. It is not the ‘I’ that we associate with our changing body and the ever changing mind, which assumes the body to be itself. It is beyond the body and the mind because it perceives both the body and the mind.

Ramana Maharshi rationalises the fact that one's body does not call itself the ‘I’. So when enquiring WHAT terms the body as ‘I’(the mind), one experiences the sense of true infinite b-e-i-n-g, without a limited feeling of ‘I’ pertaining to the body.

This being is changeless and ever present. One’s body, breadth, mind, intellect etc all has this changeless being or existence as the base. Holding on to the changeless as one’s true nature or the ‘self’ as expressed as the ‘Self’ in spiritual literature, helps to go with the flow.

That does not mean that one has to forsake the body or the mind or refrain from activities. In fact one cannot owing to one's limited identity with the body. However, the body and the sense of individuality appear on the very base, the b-e-i-n-g, like the waves that have the ocean for their base.

One will have to have a firm understanding of the fact about the transient nature of things associated with the body, mind complex. As a result there is a great sense of acceptance which results in peace to go with the flow of life or to simply live in the present. With continuous practise of holding on to the being, one understands that one is not the doer of things as things happen according to the divine will.

So what enables one to hold on to the being? In my experience it is purely GRACE for even while effort is investe, it is Grace alone which even enables one to put in the required effort.













Comments

THEY ALSO READ

Waking Up To Reality From The Three States Of Consciousness

Om Namo Bhagavate Shri Ramanaya It is not some dry philosophy, but the day to day happening in each of our lives, from birth to death that we have missed to pay attention to- the waking state, the dream state and the deep sleep state. "The world is a changing phenomena, an illusion." A spiritual comrade uttered in the course of a casual conversation. The conversation drifted to the three states of consciousness-the waking, dreaming and the deep sleep states. They are alternating phases. A little scrutiny, and we can understand about these three states, which we experience every day from birth to death. By the term "Real", we mean "Original", in the things that we encounter in our day to day life. We call "Original" because there is no change in them ever. So are the three states of consciousness, the waking state, where we engage in day to day activities; and the dream state, where we move about in our dreams with a different set o...

The Illusory World When It Becomes a Reality!

Just a shift in our perception of ourselves can bring about a change in how we look at the world. The Illusory nature of the world can be understood by first-hand experience from our day to day life  of  the waking state, dream state and the deep sleep state, the three states in Consciousness. We actually perceive and experience the world through the mind. Our mind is nothing but a collection of thoughts, which have the ‘I thought’ as the primary thought. The ‘I thought’ is an impostor that springs from Consciousness donning the appearance of Consciousness, which is the REAL I. If but for the thoughts, there is no such thing called the mind, states Ramana Maharshi. In deep sleep, the mind is lost along with the world, but when we wake up, the individual self (identification with the body and the mind), or the ‘I thought’ rises after which we begin to experience the world for the day. When we view the world as the individual self or the ‘I thought’ in th...

About Miracles - A Different Outlook!

Om Namo Bhagavate Shri Ramanaya! The womb of miracles is Grace, which is none other than the Self. Miracles here, may be defined as not the glaring ones as in Physic powers, Clairvoyance or materialising objects etc that bears the stamp of doership. They are simply divine interference in day to day life that are too very natural, and could often escape from even an alert eye. Such were those which took place in the presence of Bhagavan Ramana Maharshi. Any ardent seeker's life is peppered with miracles or divine interference. There are two common outlooks towards miracles. While most intellectual seekers on the path of Self realization often have a self imposed indifferent attitude towards miracles, seekers on the path of bakti or devotion often get lost in miraculous happenings. In my humble opinion, I guess focusing on Grace, the underlying factor of miracles than focusing on miraculous happenings themselves, or being aware of miracles rather than b...

The Meaning of Consciousness: A Deeper Understanding

Om Namo Bhagavate Shri Ramanaya! The word ‘Consciousness,’ was not more than a spiritual term, until I came across a book that introduced me to its deeper meaning. In one of my visits to Sri Ramakrishna Ashram, in the book store, I happened to pick up a book by Swami Ashokananda, “When the many become one.”  The title was nevertheless catchy and promised a detailed expression of the truth. It is a book very potent in knowledge and to be read slowly in order to grasp and digest the lofty truth that the words tried to portray. The word ‘Consciousness,’ as the book revealed, is the simple fact that all objects existed in our own consciousness (i.e.), any object that we perceive is in our own consciousness.  They will have to remain in the field of our consciousness in order to exist.  In other words we will have to be conscious of objects, only then can they be perceived. For example we perceive a glass only because we are conscious of it. We perceive an ant only because we...